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Woo-Hoo – your “Meet & Greet” went well – you’ve talked online, perhaps on the phone since then, and now you are going on your first date. Enjoy those feelings of excitement and that little nervousness – they are awesome.
While either party can suggest the first date, the person asking should be prepared to pay for the date, (unless you’ve agreed to another arrangement). This is pretty universal regardless of the “type” of relationship – the person asking pays.
In “straight” relationships – we still like the guys to ask us….sorry guys, it is traditional and some of us like those traditions, makes us feel all warm and gooey inside.
Whoever is suggesting the date, they need to have a good idea of what that date is going to comprise of. You’ve been corresponding for awhile now, you’ve met, so you should have a good idea what the other person would like. Your date does not have to be expensive, just memorable. Make sure you do something that allows you to get to know each other. Bars, concerts, even the movies are not great, because they are loud and distracting. A lot will depend on the season, but try:
The park/beach to gaze at the stars. If you really want to impress try bringing wine and desert, oh - don’t forget the blanket.
Picnic – it shows that you are a romantic. Remember the wine, a scrumptious feast, the blanket, plates, etc. If you can’t cook – go to your local gourmet store or restaurant – tell them what you are planning – they love to help.
Dinner in a funky bistro with a walk afterwards. This is more casual than a five star restaurant and gives you a lot to chat about i.e. the menu, perhaps travel, etc. Have some romantic spots picked out in the area to walk to afterwards – could be a roof top terrace, or perhaps a swing at the local park, a favourite park bench.
Street fair, festival, concert in the park. This works out great as you can people watch at the same time, tons of conversation potential.
Indoor gardens with dinner or coffee afterwards. The smells, textures will be relaxing and you can both breathe a little easier.
You get the idea –keep in mind that you’ve had the Meet & Greet, now it is time to see if the chemistry is really there. Again, this does not have to be a huge expense, but it should be memorable. For more information, check out our romance section.
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